If a parent has low self-esteem or is highly critical, then that child is going to see that in himself.  He or she will walk away feeling shame.  People who grow up with an angry parent might also be angry;  or they could become quiet, withdrawn intimidated by people who show anger.  These children retreat within themselves because they are afraid of angry people.  Unpredictability is scary to kids.

Suzanne Somers, Wednesday's Children